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I think it really depends on how well the conversation is going.I'm one of those old dinosaurs that isn't really comfortable making the first call to a man.My initial message I try to keep brief with an interesting headline to catch some attention. If i get a positive response to my initial message I will usually give out my phone number in my more detailed follow up message as well as my facebook url. It amazes me how quickly men give their phone number in the first contact. I've been asked for my number just as quickly and I ignore the request so that I won't live to regret it!Although I have heard of some men including a phone number in the initial message I feel it is too aggressive. If I have a true interest and feel that the interest is mutual, I'll offer my number.Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. When is it the right moment to slip in the phone number in your email conversations? LOL Its been my experience in the past lol...uh making a profile that sorta draws a line in the sand right up front makes everything after that so much easier.
I received one message from a guy that wanted me to meet him on a first date fishing with his friend on the river and expected my phone number.
Now I just ask something along the lines of," Obviously we know why we are on this site so you tell me how you see things happening in terms of getting to know eachother. We can email back and forth for a while and ask eachother questions2.
I can give you my cell number and you can text/call me3.
If you were concerned about safety or privacy, you would be willing to pony up the for a throw away cell phone, but that isn't what it is about, is it?
These are some of the "games" everyone says they are sick of.